Traditional couples counseling is broken and just talking about your feelings doesn't work. But-changing your behavior does. So says Stacey Bartley, a Divorce Mediator, relationship expert, and the author of the new book  "Feeling Like Your Marriage is Dead? A Divorce Mediator’s Guide to Ensuring a Lifetime of Love"   Staci has seen many examples of "failing in love" and she wants to help couples avoid the mistakes that lead to divorce. In this episode, we discuss:   Why personal balance is important in a relationship.   Why simply striving to improve communication does not fix relationships.   How to get over your fear of commitment.   Two things to stay focused on in your relationship, that will ensure longevity.   And the biggest mistakes people make when it comes to love and relationships.   What are the building blocks for creating a healthy relationship?   And how you know it is time to move on from your current relationship?   Connect with Staci Bartley online and learn more about her services at https://stacibartley.com/