29 MAR 2024 · Friendship, Sex, and Marriage, I mean … I like all those things! But I struggle to talk about them with my children.  Join Andy as he talks with Ed Drew from Faith in Kids about loneliness and value, sex and sexuality, marriage and Mr Rogers. Chapters 0:00 - 2:36 Introductions 2:36 - 13:47 Transferable Skills 13:47 - 17:03 Loniness, Friendship and Value 17:03 - 27:31 Sex and Sexuality 27:31 - 37:08 Final Remarks Part of our ‘How to’ series Guest: Ed Drew He is the director of Faith in Kids, which seeks to resource children's and family ministry in the local church. For twelve years, he was the Children’s Worker in South West London. He’s married to Mary, and they have three children. Before all that, he worked as an engineer. Author of https://www.thegoodbook.co.uk/christian-living/family-and-parenting/raising-confident-kids-in-a-confusing-world?gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAiA6KWvBhAREiwAFPZM7nFUAKZG7GrzI3nJdbyGqfTVew1bXzFnIY1NznRpuWt5ldSl48m4LBoCdisQAvD_BwE. Host: Andy Lamberton Andy Lamberton is the director of Legacy. He goes to the same church his parents, grandparents, great and great great-grandparents went to. Married to Debbie, they are raising their four children in Donegal with ice-pops for dessert most days. Author of https://uk.10ofthose.com/product/9781914966453/letters-for-exiles-paperback. Links:  - https://www.legacyfathers.org/ - https://www.faithinkids.org/ - https://about.fb.com/news/2024/01/teen-protections-age-appropriate-experiences-on-our-apps/#:~:text=Takeaways,terms%20in%20Search%20on%20Instagram.

7 MAR 2024 · Would you consider fostering? Every 15 minutes, a child comes into care in the UK. What can we, as the church, do to help? We were delighted to have Roger Cooke, from Home for Good, on the Legacy Podcast. Roger provides a depth of insight which we (Stephen and Andy) found both inspiring and helpful in considering if fostering is something our families can do. Join us. Chapters 0:00 - 7:45 Introductions 7:45 - 22:35 Why should we care? 22:35 - 35:32 What does it take? 35:32 - 42:46 Commissioning for Every Father Guest Roger Cooke is the right man to help us consider fostering and adoption. He leads the work of Home for Good, who believe we all have a part to play in ensuring every child and young person has the home they need. They work to mobilise the Church in the UK to respond to the needs of children in care. Find out more at http://homeforgood.org.uk Hosts Andy Lamberton is the director of Legacy. Author of https://uk.10ofthose.com/product/9781914966453/letters-for-exiles-paperback. And used to be a farmer. Stephen Mullan is Chief Excetutive of Dreamscheme. Writer at https://rethinkingyouth.beehiiv.com/. And likes to wander. Links: - https://www.legacyfathers.org/ - https://homeforgood.org.uk/

8 FEB 2024 · Life is a million miles an hour. Is your home a haven or do you live in a hurried house? Little of what’s important happenes in a rush. Join Andy Lamberton as he speaks with Kent Evans about helping our children slow down. Chapters (0:00-3:29) - Introduction (3:30-23:59) - Helping our children slow down (24:00-39:01) - Becoming disciple-making dads This is the second of our ‘How To’ series. Up next: How to Embrace God’s Call to be Fathers to the Fatherless, with Roger Cooke. Guest: Kent Evans is executive director of https://manhoodjourney.org/, and along with his wife, April, has not one, not two, not three, not four, but five sons. Host: Andy Lamberton is the director of Legacy. He goes to the same church his parents, grandparents, great and great great-grandparents went to. Married to Debbie, they are raising their four children in Donegal with ice-pops for dessert most days. Author of https://uk.10ofthose.com/product/9781914966453/letters-for-exiles-paperback. Links: https://www.legacyfathers.org/ https://manhoodjourney.org/ https://uk.10ofthose.com/product/9781914966453/letters-for-exiles-paperback

1 FEB 2024 · Imagine getting to sit in as someone else opens the Bible with their children. Big thanks to Chase Replogle for giving us the opportunity to do just that with his new podcast. https://letstalkbible.kids/ Chapters 0:00 - 2:50 Introductions 2:50 - 18:00 Opening the Bible with our children 18:00 - 31:53 The 5 Masculine Instincts This is the first in our ‘How To’ series. Up next: How to Help Your Children Slow Down, with Kent Evans Guest: Chase Replogle"Chase is the pastor of Bent Oak Church in Springfield, Missouri. Host of two podcasts - the Let's Talk Bible podcast for kids (and parents) and the Pastor Writer Podcast, on reading, writing and the Christian life. He is author of https://the5masculineinstincts.com/ and enjoys being outdoors with his wife and two kids, sailing, playing the guitar (badly), and quail hunting with his bird dog Millie." Host: Andy LambertonAndy Lamberton is the director of Legacy. He goes to the same church his parents, grandparents, great and great great-grandparents went to. Married to Debbie, they are raising their four children in Donegal with ice-pops for dessert most days. Author of https://uk.10ofthose.com/product/9781914966453/letters-for-exiles-paperback. Links: - https://www.legacyfathers.org/ - https://letstalkbible.kids/ - https://the5masculineinstincts.com/ - https://uk.10ofthose.com/product/9781914966453/letters-for-exiles-paperback

20 DIC 2023 · We had one episode on failing as a father. But what about deep failure? The last verses of the Old Testament, Malachi 4:5-6 says, “Behold, I will send you Elijah the prophet before the great and awesome day of the Lord comes. And he will turn the hearts of fathers to their children and the hearts of children to their fathers, lest I come and strike the land with a decree of utter destruction.” Join us as we take a deep dive into this verse, and speak to a man with extensive experience in helping families who have experienced profound hurt turn towards each other, find healing and, where possible, restoration. Today we are privileged to have Willie Patterson on the Legacy Podcast. Willie was the Assistant Director for 'Family and Child Care', and then took early retirement to set up Family Spectrum in 2004. http://www.familyspectrum.org.uk http://www.legacyfathers.org https://www.legacyfathers.org/failing-forward-with-graeme-thompson-legacy-podcast-s1e2/ Next up with have a ‘How to’ series… Suggestions always welcome - https://legacyfathers.org

1 DIC 2023 · What kind of a father do you want to be? Today we've got a story of the impact a father can make. We are so grateful to Alf for sharing. Enjoy! Between Series 2 and Series 3 we've got three solo episodes. 1. Meet Andy and Stephen 2. The impact of a father. Alf Thompson's Story. 3. "And he will turn the hearts of fathers" with Willie Paterson https://www.legacyfathers.org

24 NOV 2023 · Between Series 2 and Series 3, we've got three solo episodes. - Meet Andy and Stephen - The impact of a father – Alf Thompson's story - "And he will turn the hearts of fathers" with Willie Paterson Meet Andy and Stephen Ever wondered who Andy and Stephen are? what their story is? Nope? - well then you can skip. But if you want to meet the hosts of the Legacy podcast, dive right in. 0:00 - 16:20 - Meet Stephen 16:20 - 28:05 - Meet Andy 28:05 - 36:44 - Legacy's Story https://www.legacyfathers.org/

26 OTT 2023 · “To have a father who delights in knowing and loving them is one of the greatest blessings any girl can have.” In the third and final ‘square-table’ conversation, Andy and Stephen are joined by Jonny McKane and Evan Reid, to talk about raising daughters today. — Reflection from Stephen: We can sometimes fight against the reality that our daughters will one day become women and will leave home. As Andy says near the end of this episode: “I don’t want my daughter to change!” Who relates? I know I want my one and half year old daughter to forever stay small, cute and slightly squidgy! At the heart of this feeling is a mix of love and joy. Yet, what I learned in this conversation was that the loving, joyful relationship between a father and his daughter is foundational and formative in her journey to womanhood. Of course, there is much we need to think about as we raise our girls (and we cover a lot in this episode), but never underestimate the place of joy. To have a father who delights in knowing and loving them is one of the greatest blessings any girl can have. In this conversation we talk about: - The joys of being a father to a daughter - How we can exasperate them - Hopes and fears as your daughter grows from girl to woman - How a father-daughter relationship changes over time - Journeying with the emotions of your daughter - Not being scared to speak - Cherishing her now while preparing her for the future Two songs for fathers with Daughters - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sYiM-sOC6nEA song from a father to a teenage daughter. We challenge any father to watch this video and have dry eyes at the end. V2 "I know it’s hard to hear it when the anger in your spirit is pointed like an arrow to your chest. When the voices in your mind are anything but kind, and you can’t believe your father knows best. I love you just the way that you are, I love the way He made your precious heart. Be kind to yourself" - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fqifjBtNzLwA song about caring without controlling. Chorus: "I want to hold you close, but never hold you back. Like the banks of a river"

2 OTT 2023 · “Fatherhood is a journey punctuated by moments”. Paul Paynter says that on our podcast - so he does! The journey and the moments. As dads, we need to keep both in mind. Co-Hosts Andy and Stephen are joined on the Legacy Podcast by David McGinty, David Penney, Paul Paynter, Paul Decock and a young man called Nathaniel to have a round table on Raising Sons Today. Here’s our summary. What we do over the long run will greatly influence our sons. They will notice our priorities. They will be shaped by the atmosphere we create. And they will, in large part, follow our model of masculinity. But moments will also have a defining influence on our sons. Decisions around tech. Trips abroad. A conversation about girls late at night. How we mark key milestones is something intentional fathers think about. All of these moments have the potential of deeply shaping our sons’ lives. Moments, though, can be easily missed. In Jon Tyson’s Book - The Intentional Father he says: “So much of our lives is defined by moments. Moments of wonder, moments of heartache, moments of accomplishment, moments of regret. An intentional father is aware of the power of moments and works hard in advance to create life-changing ones.” In this episode we cover both the journey and the moments. We hope you enjoy the conversation as much as we did. This is a wild ride and we talk about: - raising sons in the digital world - lies and honesty - dangers and duties - seizing moments - vision and intention - prioritising worship - loving your wife - influencing the atmosphere - the thousand-mile stare - working from home - what boys need - modelling faith - challenging boys - should I give my son a phone? - what’s the difference between raising a son or a daughter - words for a father whose son has rebelled Links: http://www.legacyfathers.org https://www.amazon.co.uk/Intentional-Father-Practical-Courage-Character/dp/0801018684 https://christianheritagelondon.org/walks https://boysbrigadeni.org/

13 SET 2023 · 'Disciple-makers are first of all disciples. They are ordinary people like my mum and dad. My mum was a disciple of Jesus, carefully disguised as a care home assistant. My dad, a caretaker at a primary school.' Jim Brown For season 2, we have three round tables: 1. Disciple Making Fathers, 2. Raising Sons Today, and 3. Raising Daughters Today. We’re delighted to have Jim Brown, Chris Agnew and Peter Munce kicking off our first episode with - Disciple Making Fathers. In this episode, we talk about: - What it means to be a disciple-maker - Learning from the Ultimate Father - The 4 roles of a father - The gift of fatherhood - Discipling young children - How the church can support disciple-making fathers - Where to start? - What we want our children to know before they are 18 ***** http://www.legacyfathers.org is a ministry for fathers from http://www.exodusonline.org.uk - we provide programmes for churches to help faith and fatherhood thrive.