We have all experienced this scenario: you walk onto the court to face the local "gold medal" team, and before the first serve even happens, your brain instantly decides, "We have no chance". What do most players do next? They try to forcefully pump themselves up with fake bravado, telling themselves they are going to crush their opponents. But the frustration sets in because your body still feels incredibly tense—deep down, you do not actually believe the toxic positivity you are feeding yourself.

In this episode of Mental Pickleball, Coach Kevin explains how to handle these moments using a tool from functional contextualism called "cognitive defusion". Defusion teaches us that you do not need to replace a negative thought with a toxically positive one to play well. Instead of fighting the thought, you will learn how to simply unhook from it, allowing you to carry the "we might lose" thought safely in your pocket while still executing your third-shot drops perfectly.
In This Episode, You Will Learn:

• Name the Thought: How shifting your internal language (e.g., "I am having the thought that we are going to lose") creates instant distance between you and your anxiety.
• Drop the Tug-of-War: Why you need to stop arguing with your brain and trying to convince yourself you are the greatest player on earth.
• Commit to the Action: How to put 100% of your focus on physical execution—feeling your grip, watching the ball, and moving your feet—while letting the negative thought exist harmlessly.

Today’s Challenge: The next time you step onto the court against a team that intimidates you, do not try to hype yourself up with fake confidence. Notice the self-doubt, put it in your pocket, and focus entirely on executing your mechanics.

Quiet Mind, Fierce Game.

Ready to Level Up? Ready to optimize your performance by connecting your mind, body, and sleep health? Book a free virtual session with Coach Kevin at harrisonsleep.com to build your mental flexibility from the ground up.


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