Grieving the Idealized Version of the Narcissist—and Making Room for Reality! Join The Conversation Panels 1–3 explore the wound, reaction, and encoding. Dorothy represents the innocent, authentic self; Kansas, the original family environment; and the tornado, the disruption that causes a first disconnection. Oz becomes the inner world shaped by childhood experiences, while the road represents the Mind Map journey. The episode helps listeners identify an early wound and the beliefs about themselves that grew from it.rive. Join the conversation live and be part of the discussion! Call 323-524-2599 to speak with Dr. Judy, ask your questions, or share your experiences. To learn more about Dr. Judy's services and the Psychological Healing Center, visit www.psychologicalhealingcenter.com.