The holidays aren’t always merry and bright. For many, it's the season of ‘shoulds.’ I should spend more money. I’m supposed to love being around my family, even when they drive me up the wall. I should go to the office party, even though I’d rather stay home. And then there’s the financial stress—trying to make the budget stretch, hunting for deals, and feeling like everything you do has to be perfect as this is how you prove your love. If the holidays have you dreading the drama, the to-do lists, and the financial pressure, this episode is for you.

In this episode, we’re talking about giving yourself permission to let go of all those holiday ‘shoulds.’ What would it feel like to do the holidays on your terms this year—without the guilt? This is the first episode in a holiday survival series where we’re tackling everything from family drama to feeling disconnected/lonely and even protecting your energy during the busiest time of the year. Let’s start by making this season about you.