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On Today's Episode:

Mutual respect is a must for any successful relationship. Disrespect isn’t always obvious and can take on many forms. Your partner may leave you feeling resentful, wary, unseen and unheard, if so listen up!

The goal of this episode is to reveal the red flags you’ll want to pay attention to so that you can see what mutual healthy respect for each other looks like. Tom and Lisa Bilyeu have been together more than 20 years and have gone through all of the ups and downs and have experienced many trials and errors in learning how to have a long lasting relationship and beautiful life long shared experience together built on trust, respect, and open communication.

So, if you’re not sure that your partner is respecting you, or it feels like you are both disagreeing at a fundamental level with no agreement in sight, it’s time to take notes on what may save your relationship or help you decide if it’s time to go.

SHOW NOTES:

0:00 | Introduction to Red Flags on Respect
0:40 | They Weaponize Your Insecurities
28:02 | They Don’t Work Through Conflict
1:04:05 | They Don’t Support Your Feelings

QUOTES:

“Manipulation is moving somebody to your advantage and influence is moving them to their advantage.” Tom Bilyeu [4:14]

“To be in a relationship and make that person feel better about themselves when they’re around you is to understand that leadership is fluid, and there are going to be times when I’m leading, there’s going to be times when you’re leading…” [9:08]

“When someone has a conflicting value with you they see the world in a way that you think is worse.” [30:01]

“When the other person is doing something nice for you, lavish them with praise for that…” [50:39]

“When you really think about what makes a couple powerful it’s the way that you shape each other's value system…” [1:06:43]

“In life you go through phases. Enjoy every phase for what it has to offer.” [1:17:59]

“Focusing on all these other things allows me to get my confidence in other places, so that as I just get older and older I’m not attached to that and I’m not feeling insecure about it.” Lisa Bilyeu [1:25:51]

“I don’t think just asking your partner to be sweet and kind and understanding is the answer to the long term solution.” Lisa Bilyeu [1:30:42]

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