Relationships are all about timing, and for Joey and Lexi, timing is not on their side. In this Bachelor recap, we talk about Lexi’s surprising decision to leave the show after learning that Joey wants a longer engagement and marriage before having kids - something that she can’t get on board with. We discuss the challenge of navigating differing timelines in relationships and why Lexi’s choice is so commendable.

We also dig into what we’ve long surmised would be Joey’s greatest struggle as the bachelor: figuring out how to open up and put himself first. As these issues start to come to the forefront, which woman will be able to embrace Joey in all his struggles and imperfections? We have our thoughts…

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