The old invisible accepted elephant that has been in the church is feminism.
It is the reason why so many men kill themselves trying to perform Ephesians chapter five. While their wives sit by and watch them die early deaths at times. We preach that we want men in our churches, but refuse to take up the issues that men face outside the church.
Men are facing injustices regarding paternity and the churches remain silent. When it comes to false accusations against men we judge them guilty hastily, without all the evidence. When they have been proven innocent we still remain silent as a church.
We as the church are called to do unto the least of these, but we have allowed our voices to be silent to the men we want to lead our families and in our churches. It's an oxymoron to put Christianity and feminism in the same boat together, but we have. We are losing our men.
Our women are asking the questions, How come I can't keep a man? Or Where are the men? The men have been removed by this invisible elephant called Christian Feminism. It taints our doctrines and indoctrinates at the same time while destroying our family bonds, systems, and structures.