Of course cheating is not warranted in a relationship, you might say. Up until the time you hear your partner is going abroad for a year or two - if one year is not enough to give you heart conditions and worse, cause a state of the art dry spell. So just when can we give a hall pass in a relationship? Maybe when your partner cheats first. But look at you eagerly waiting for your partner to cheat so you can dive into the spree as well. Speaking of sprees, people go on revenge sprees after a breakup! Intense right?