Dealing with your partner’s insecurities in the relationship gets very challenging. Because they are often triggered by something internal the work needs to come mainly from your partner. When you are committed and down for the long-term relationship, you realize that dealing with your own insecurities is more effective in creating and maintaining a healthy and happy relationship. Tom and Lisa share how Tom was able to recognize and address one of his own insecurities early in the relationship. It may be a surprise but at the root of your insecurity and your partner’s insecurity is a challenge to your identity and personal values.


Relationship Theory with Tom and Lisa Bilyeu encourages healthy, loving, life long relationships. Whether you are fresh out of your last relationship, on a break, taking time to heal from a breakup, or looking for ways to strengthen the romance and bond in your current relationship, Tom and Lisa are sharing their 20 years of experience. They’re taking questions and giving relationship advice that will enhance all of your relationships.

SHOW NOTES:

Free Your Insecurities | Tom shares how he handled his insecurities at the beginning [2:01]
Identity Change | What you tie identity to in the relationship matters for your insecurities [7:11]

QUOTES:

“What set me free to deal with my insecurities was recognizing that I could get better.” To Bilyeu [2:12]

“The real goal is to be desirous of a partner who is equally as powerful as you are.” Tom Bilyeu [6:40]