I don't walk up to a person of lazy ways and habits and throw down accusations. What if the situation is a deeper wound then you're willingly offering? The destination of a performance should never rest in the hands of those making the demands. We want way too much in 2015 without ever putting in the dirt time to make the moment happen. Bosses aren't leaders. They're just happy that they have control. True leaders locate the strings that untie the masks so that everyone can peacefully stop hiding.