Being happy while being single is such an important thing that we must learn. It defeats needy and attached behavior, and inspires us to be strong enough to only accept the best for our relationship life. Unfortunately most people settle for less than what they can really achieve, hence the high divorce rate, and poor parenting that results. We've been indoctrinated as early as we could watch Disney movies with the bs story that we are incomplete without a lover. In reality, if you think of.a relationship as merely icing on the delicious cake, life will be that much more rewarding and you'll be as attractive as the creator intended.