In this episode John talks about the enabler. An enabler is someone who tends to aid in someone's dysfunctions rather than letting them learn from their own lessons in life. Unfortunately for the enabler they tend to do this from a place of lack of self love and insufficient boundaries. It's a rocky road to learn the distinctions of healthy boundaries and love of another but you can achieve a healthy, loving relationship that starts with yourself and then extends to giving to others.<br /><br />Follow the GSMC Relationship Podcast at <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/gsmc-relationship-podcast/id1119358523" rel="noopener">https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/gsmc-relationship-podcast/id1119358523</a>