This episode is special. I am sharing with you the most precious gift I have received from my coach. I am teaching you the most important tool I learnt in life coaching which changed my life and gave me the clarity I was so desperate for. And I promise you it’s going to change the way you look at your life too. I know it has transformed the way all my clients think about their lives.

You have probably heard these words several times – “You create your reality” but most of us don’t really believe it. Because if we really believed, we wouldn’t be blaming anyone outside of us for the problems we have.

Rather than saying I have this problem because my boss isn’t promoting me, she doesn’t appreciate me or my kids don’t listen to me or my mother in law irritates me, here’s what would be saying instead - Here is how I have created this problem for myself.

We often miss seeing our role in how we create the problem for ourselves. We see how others messed up very clearly. But we don’t see how we contributed to the mess. When we start seeing our role in the mess, there won’t be any mess 

You have results in your life – your health, weight, income, relationships, accomplishments, skills. Some of these results you like and some you don’t. You may have stories of why you have the results you don’t like.

But the tool I share with you will help you see exactly how you are creating each of these results in your life and shortest most effective way to change it. Hint – it doesn’t require hard work or will power.

This tool is the crux of life. It will teach you to think deliberately and choose your thoughts on purpose based on results you want to create. Most people don’t even know they can do it and very few know how to do it.

If you learn to apply this tool, you realize there is literally no result in your life that you can’t create if you can adopt a mindset towards it.

If you want to learn the most important life skill of choosing your thoughts and think deliberately, then find me on www.mindtalesconsulting,com. Your future self will thank you for this just like I thank myself everyday for having invested in learning this tool :)