The former Naval officer describes why telling the Navy about her alleged rape was worse than the incident itself.

Producer and host: Georgina Campbell
Audio editor: James Irwin
Sound and video production: Mark Mitchell
Executive producer: Frances Cook
Editor: Andrew Laxon
Newstalk ZB archival audio provided by Ngā Taonga Sound & Vision

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Helpline Resources

If you've ever experienced sexual assault or abuse and need to talk to someone call Rape Crisis NZ: 0800 883300 or for a local branch detail, visit http://www.rapecrisisnz.org.nz/
You can also call the confidential crisis helpline on: 0800 227 233 (08002B SAFE).
If it's an emergency and you feel that you or someone else is at risk, call 111.
Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse has resources specifically for men here https://malesurvivor.nz/contact/
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White Ribbon aims to eliminate men's violence towards women, focusing this year on sexual violence and the issue of consent. You can visit www.whiteribbon.org.nz