I know, it sounds so rude and harsh, but haven't you ever found yourself always complaining about something? What about the stuff that makes you angry and you just can't get out of that loop? At some point it's best to simply skip the complaint and embrace the understanding of the situation or what can you learn from it and grow? Also, I swam 15 miles in 8 days to raise money for cancer research. I could use some donations. https://www.facebook.com/donate/745469943462966/