In our conversation, I delve into the fascinating journey of Minnie Scarlet and how she crafted the stage name. She shares her unconventional love for spiders and fishing. Minnie opens up about navigating the adult entertainment industry, from her first professional shoot to the challenges posed by her alternative appearance. Through it all, she emphasizes the importance of staying true to oneself and finding a supportive community.
 
Minnie made the conscious choice not to get an agent and pursue full-time work in the adult industry. Maintaining her artistic integrity and keeping her options open across different fields was essential to her. Shame should never control our actions; forgiveness and self-acceptance are crucial. We discuss how shame can detrimentally impact individuals, particularly those battling addiction, stressing the need for understanding and support in their recovery journeys. Furthermore, she sheds light on the stereotypes and fetishization prevalent in the adult industry, particularly for Asian performers like herself. Minnie Scarlet shares some of the challenging experiences she has faced, including pressure to conform to racial stereotypes. & ethical adult content is about giving people choices and being mindful of power dynamics.

Art and creativity have been Minnie’s saving grace, providing coping mechanisms and outlets for expression. She advocates for finding balance and embracing calmness amidst life's chaos, rather than constantly chasing fleeting moments of happiness. Through Avril Heals, the nonprofit organization, she has helped create spaces for marginalized communities to heal creatively, underscoring the importance of community and support in overcoming trauma and addiction.

Chapters
(00:00) Introduction and Mini Scarlett's Origin Story 
(04:04) Getting into the Adult Industry 
(08:50) The Influence of Tumblr
(12:11) Shooting for Mainstream Companies
(26:40) Comparison to Other Jobs
(28:11) Working at Panda Express and Dealing with Anxiety
(29:13) Balancing Work and Personal Life
(30:10) Reflecting on Past Experiences and YOLO Moments
(31:36) Overcoming Shame and Guilt
(32:59) Living Life Fully and Letting Go of Excessive Shame
(33:23) Recovering from Addiction and Learning Self-Compassion
(36:44) The Impact of Shame and the Importance of Forgiveness
(37:14) The Role of Shame in Addiction and Recovery
(38:22) The Pressure of Society and the Pursuit of Happiness
(39:01) The Shame and Stigma Surrounding Sex Work
(41:18) Racial Fetishization in the Adult Industry
(43:19) Representation of Asian Men in the Adult Industry
(46:37) Challenging Stereotypes and Misconceptions in the Adult Industry
(49:12) The Importance of Representation and Diversity in Media
(55:32) Exploring Ethical Porn and Giving Performers Choices
(01:01:00) The Challenges of Online Platforms
(01:02:21) Opportunities on Social Media
(01:02:43) Getting a Role on Sons of Anarchy
(01:05:02) Coping with Bad Days
(01:07:21) Avril Heals: Creating Healing Spaces
(01:15:37) The Power of Community
(01:23:04) Creating Platforms for Underrepresented Voices

Minnie Scarlet Links:
https://twitter.com/minniescarlet 
https://www.instagram.com/minniescarlet/
https://linktr.ee/minniescarlet

Avril Heals:
https://lnk.bio/AvrilHeals

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