You have to communicate love!
To get the type of love you desire you must communicate it.
The first communication is within you, and the second communication is how you explain it to those you deem worthy and desire.
You just can't assume a person will love you the way you want to be loved if they are experiencing you for the first time.
Too many times we believe that we can have the type of love that we see in movies and tv.
We are heartbroken to find that it didn't happen like the movies.
You have to be willing to be authentic, transparent, and vulnerable in communicating your love needs and language.
Don't blame people for what you didn't communicate.