Summary  

Charles Vollmer, a successful California chef, shares his journey of coming out later in life and the challenges he faced. After being outed by his wife, he left his possessions behind and started a new life in San Miguel, Mexico. He is rebuilding his career as a culinary teacher and started sharing his story on social media. Charles discusses the unique challenges faced by men who come out later in life, the impact on their families, and the need for support and understanding. He emphasizes the importance of being true to oneself and finding a community of like-minded individuals.  

Keywords:  coming out, late in life, challenges, rebuilding, support, community  

Takeaways

• Coming out later in life can be a challenging and traumatic experience, but it can also lead to personal growth and happiness.
• The impact on family and relationships can be significant, and rebuilding trust and understanding takes time.
• Finding a supportive community and seeking professional help can be crucial in navigating the complexities of coming out later in life.
• Being true to oneself and embracing authenticity is essential for personal fulfillment and living a fulfilling life.

  Titles

• The Importance of Support and Understanding
• Rebuilding After Coming Out: Finding a New Path

  Sound Bites

• "Divorcing, giving up my San Francisco Bay home of 30 years and everything in it, donating 99% of my clothing and personal belongings and selling my car. I left for Europe to begin my life over at 61."

Chapters 

• 00:00  Introduction: Charles Vollmer's Journey
• 10:38  Starting Over: Rebuilding After Coming Out
• 25:00  Reflections and Regrets: Lessons Learned
• 30:59  Advice for Others: Taking Your Time and Finding Support  

About Charles Vollmar

• Epicurean Exchange Culinary Travel:   www.epexculinarytravel.com
• Blog:  www.epicureanglobalexchange.com
• Facebook, Threads, Instagram: All @ CharlesVollmar

Book Recommendation: Gay Men and The New Way Forward, by Raymond L. Rigoglioso - https://a.co/d/1AROMMu  

Podcast website and resources: https://www.OutLateWithDavid.com  

YouTube Edition:  https://youtu.be/SLJXxU-wUaw 

YouTube Channel:  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCvsthP9yClKI4o5LxbuQnOg  

Certified Professional Life Coach, David Cotton:  https://www.DavidCottonCoaching.com  

Contact me:  mailto:david@davidcottoncoaching.com

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