Here are 12 signs you're manipulative without realizing it! Manipulative people can be found in every relationship, from family members to friends, co-workers at work, partners in romantic relationships, etc. So, are you manipulative? Perhaps people even called you a master manipulator before! You might think you're an amazing person, but what if you always seem to get your way because you're actually manipulating others? Psychological and emotional manipulation is when someone uses words or actions to influence another person's thinking or behavior. It usually involves changing how someone feels about something so they will agree with or do something they normally wouldn't do. But how do you know if you're a manipulative person? Look, we all have manipulative tendencies sometimes. But if you recognize these signs of manipulation tactics in yourself, such as gaslighting or guilt tripping, and if they interfere with your relationships, it's time to stop and reflect.